FAMILY NONE wondering?

if family is the most important thing,aside from God,ok ..then what does one do who has no family or who grew up with an abusive family, and never made a family of their own ..due to,,many things can cause this,obviously.so how does one survive withoout any real loved ones.. remember.aside from God, i know he's the most important but,,we all need an earthly prescence to help us as well??? and this is an evil world,so what to do???