This is not to sound mean, but has anyone noticed that a lot of wives in the military...?

I have been an Army Wife for 5 years. I have noticed some of the wives are like that and some are not. I can for certain say I have never used my husbands rank. I have often told off a few of these wives who try to use the rank of their husbands. I don't tolerate it at all. But as some have said it is not just military wives who do this.